Is this a Good First Date? Am I a Gathered Man when it comes to dating? |
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#1) Is she aware that you want to go out because you are physically/romantically interested in her? |
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YES |
#2) Have you researched/planned an activity to do together? (At least 2 choices) |
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YES |
Is there food/drink options? (Coffee, cocktails, appetizers, meals all count) |
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YES |
#3) Have you discussed the options/plans with date? |
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NO |
Don't be last minute. You're trippin. She is a hot busy lady and is not sitting around waiting on you. Women don't like tepid men. |
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YES |
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You are in the friend zone. This may not be a date in her head. |
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Don't be lazy/cheap. You are showing you are not mature and that you're ungathered. |
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She may think you are flaking and that she is not important to you. Women don't like tepid men. |
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NO |
#4) Called to confirm 1-3 days before date night?
#5) Then Call/Text to confirm day of date? |
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YES |
#6) Did you meet at designated time and place? |
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YES |
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Apologize. Try not to be on CPT. |
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#7) Is she enjoying your company? |
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#10) Go home, See her safely home, or confirm that she gets home. |
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#9)Collect your hug/kiss/affection. |
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YES |
#9) You thanked her time/mention seeing her again soon. |
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YES |
#8) You paid for the date? |
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Top 3 reasons she's not: 1. you are not being chivalrous/respectful. This sets the tone for the date. 2. inappropriate talking topics 3. being fake/cocky |
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You rock. Awesome date. You're officially a gathered dater. Repeat this cycle at least twice before varying.
www.thegatheredla.com |
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Come on, that final touch seals the deal. If she's at your house (winner winner chicken dinner), then don't jump on her like a hungry lion. Take it slow. |
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She will be confused if you are still interested in her. She may friend zone you. Be Assertive. Women don't like tepid men. |
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WTF?! dutch= friend zone. Don't you dare expect a kiss or some booty. jerk. |
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